Kirstine Weaver
So many of our wounds are created in relationship with others; we are not designed to heal them on our own.
Hi, I’m Kirstine. My clients include those who identify as Gender, Sexuality and/or Relationship Diverse (GSRD), highly sensitive people and neurodivergent folk. I also work with practitioners who support these groups of people.
As a highly sensitive neurodivergent person I struggled with the head down approach of talking therapies. I felt that neurotypical people were projecting their perceptions onto me, and I was struggling to be heard. Discovering somatic work was a game changer for me. Bottom up therapy allowed my body messages to be felt, seen and heard.
Training to become a Certified Sexological Bodyworker has taken me on an epic journey in understanding myself more fully. It’s inspired me to want to take this work into the world, to allow more people to connect to the messages contained within their body. To heal parts of themselves, to be witnessed with radical acceptance.
My offerings include working in the realms of consent and boundaries, conscious kink, massage and scar tissue remediation. I’m trauma-informed, and hold space for people of all genders to slow down, connect to themselves and find healing in discovering their unique stories held in their bodies.
Sexological bodywork is for anyone who wants to connect more deeply to their body. You may be particularly interested if you:
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Identify as queer, in sexuality or gender (or both)
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Are a bodyworker or healthcare professional interested in being better informed for intimate touch with your clients/patients
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Have engaged in non-consensual sex or sexual advances
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Experience difficulties with intimacy
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Struggle to interpret intimate situations or have difficulty asking for what you want
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Wish to explore being sexual with a disability
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Experience shame, guilt or other blocks to pleasure
…and many more!
I felt very safe in the session, it seemed to flow effortlessly & quite magically. I felt able to express myself freely in terms of inner sensations without fear of judgment. Kirstine has a natural calm curiosity and weaved a powerful session at the end of which l felt very comforted, uplifted & energetically held :) – Francine, London
I received a couple of sessions from Kirstine earlier this year, which really helped me with the topics of gender expression, finding a way to better relate to my monthly cycle as a non-binary person, and reconnecting to a felt sense of safety in my body. I really appreciated Kirstine’s wisdom and creativity, which made the sessions feel unique to me. I felt beautifully and gently held throughout and, perhaps most importantly, seen. I would recommend Kirstine to others doing the work to break down societally-imprinted beliefs about who they are. – Lex, Liverpool
If you are new to working with me, I ask that we set up a discovery call to see if we are a fit for working together. To show your commitment to this work and to honour our time together, this call will be chargeable. I then send you a confidential intake form to complete, which I review. This will help to inform me in creating our session, which we will do together.
Sessions may include coaching, breathwork, Wheel of Consent work or other somatic exercises. There will be homeplay activities to try out in between sessions.
My standard rates are £180 for a 90 minute online session, £360 for a 3 hour in person session. My social media has details of discounts I may be offering.
Please note my working hours are between 10am and 6pm Monday to Friday. I occasionally have evening and weekend slots available; these are prioritised to clients of marginalized genders and sexualities.
My regular practice space is not suitable for anyone who has difficulty with stairs. If this is you, please let me know and we can explore alternatives.
Online and/or telephone appointments are available.