I specialise in working with couples when one or both partners have had an experience of trauma which is impacting the relationship.
My approach is psychodynamic, meaning that after considering the current issues you face, we will focus on the impact of early life experiences on how you feel now. Many relationship issues are driven by unconscious motives and unresolved childhood issues, so unpacking the past in this way can really improve your connection with your partner.
My specialist training in trauma, sex and relationships means that if it is appropriate for you, I can offer intensive EMDR therapy for significant trauma or behavioural homework for psychosexual issues.
I respect the individuality and experience of each member of the couple and I am trained to have a ‘couple state of mind’–that is, to be able to hold in mind your sometimes different realities and understand the issues you bring in the context of the unique world you have created together.
Online and/or telephone appointments are available.